Charles Thomas: When the Roses aren’t Red
Watershed Voice columnist Charles Thomas writes, "If you're lonely this Valentine's Day, I think it's normal and even laudable to yearn for the opportunity to love in this active way and to find the kind of love that is real, harsh, and at times, even dreadful. "But dreaming of a love perpetually frozen in the moments after a meet cute is likely to bring only sorrow. While that kind of love does exist, it's as fragile as a soap bubble that immediately pops when hit with the faintest of breezes. When that bubble has burst, we are left with a mess that must be cleaned up. Then it’s time for us to start the harder task of active love. As G.K. Chesterton wrote, 'to love means loving the unlovable.'"
